my name is mandra. i'm 22. i live near atlanta, GA.
i really like sherlock, mad men, house md, doctor who, assassin's creed, breaking bad, harry potter, feminism, history, art, politics, sex, italy, BDSM, Dom/sub, coffee, tea, art history, people watching, birds, chemistry, spicy food, blood, gore, anatomy
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- art blog:
bitchlocked (NSFW)
- political blog:
bitchface-politics
- twitter:
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loveandasteadyhand:
Gender is an important part of how we perceive each other and how we interact with each other. While it’s true that one can not care about gender as part of selecting a romantic or sexual partner, I think claiming not to “see gender” in day-to-day interactions is erroneous and potentially dangerous.
Also when people say they don’t see race, or color.

This.
The “I don’t see race/colour/gender/what-have-you” thing really bothers me for one major reason: these are characteristics that some people base their identities upon, either majorly or minutely, and there is absolutely nothing wrong with that. Maybe for you, it may not be the case, but the person next to you may really identify with being a woman and make that a big part of their life, for example. You are in no position to invalidate that by saying “I don’t see that.”
Three flaws with this logic:
1) Things like gender and race are social constructions, and we are brought up in society. This method of thinking infers that one is somehow beyond social control and influence, no matter how ingrained it as been in us since birth, and that is highly unlikely.
2) Why not just see things like gender and race and just treat everybody equally anyroad? Is it so hard to acknowledge these parts of people’s identities and still treat them like human beings without invalidating what could potentially be a huge part of them?
3) Saying that one does not see gender or race implies that they are not worth seeing, when in fact, they are very important things to sit and reflect on, and everyone reading this best do so for a very, very, very long time.
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